Let Your Inner Conversations Set You Free

The more that I live, the more I choose that life gets to be easy. 

How many of us go through life pushing and pulling, striving to thrive only to be left standing in disappointment and reconsiderations? 

I’m convinced that this isn’t the way and I just may have the way out of this nonsense. 

Would you believe me if I told you that our inner conversations are the driving force when it comes to the life that we live?

We are Here to be Free

What we discuss in secret is what is magnified in our lives on a daily basis. There is no way around this phenomenon. When you think about it, it’s actually refreshing to know that what we think about and discuss in our innermost thoughts, is what gets to play out in our lives. I like this idea because it means that we really do have the final say in all of this. 

The caveat is, I am on duty at all times monitoring what is being said because if I am to control the narrative, then I have to be at attention to ensure there is no nonsense swirling around in my conversation. It is both empowering and haunting to know that I have the power to dictate what happens in my life by what I constantly talk to myself about.

Monitor Those Secret Thoughts

Sounds complicated…I know. I want to keep things simple and not overcomplicate. I monitor what I am secretly saying to myself to make sure that the narrative is exactly what I want to experience or something better and voila, I get to see it play out on the screen of my life. 

Dang! Talk about power. The next time someone asks if you have a super power, this is it! OK, so what do I want my inner conversation to be about the majority of the time? Primarily how good my life is. How I’ve decided that I get to have the best of everything and what that experience is like for me. Tears are welling up in my eyes as I write this. My soul knows that this is true for me. It feels so good!

The Question?

It is ALWAYS good to ask yourself: What do I want? 

If anyone walked up to me and asked me that question right now, I will ALWAYS have an answer. I always know exactly what I want because I have made the decision to. 

Many people have spent the better parts of their lives not knowing what they want or not having an inkling of an idea about what they want. Often, not knowing “how” they can get what they want is a block. Hence, the decision is to walk around deprived and defeated simply because we said no to ourselves. 

Isn’t that something? 

Forget about what we talk about with people. What are we talking about to ourselves when we don’t even know it? That’s the real deep dive. Now that I know that there are no limits to what we get to have in this life, I am paying real close attention to my inner conversations. As a conscious creator, I don’t get to think and talk about just any old thing. My thoughts and words are very intentional and there is freedom in that.

(This is Part I of a Two Part Series)

Words by Malena Jackson for Anaverde Magazine